Blame Vs. Accountabilty


Mar 8, 2021

 by Chris Romulo
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Keep ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐š๐œ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐๐‹๐€๐Œ๐„ on everything and everyone around youโฃ
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Take a ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ž yourself because that’s where the answers lie…โฃ
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Let me tell you a little something ๐ˆ ๐๐จ๐ง’๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก out of fear of hurting anyone close to me.โฃ
 
You see, I ๐๐จ๐ง’๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ to those I’ve worked with and all the great things I was ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐š๐œ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก through CROM PC.โฃ
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โฃBut f๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฅ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ“ ๐ฒ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ˆ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐œ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐Œ๐ˆ๐’๐„๐‘๐€๐๐‹๐„ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฒ๐ฆ.โฃ
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We moved in to a 5000 square foot space in 2015, more than ๐ช๐ฎ๐š๐๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐š๐œ๐ž from 2010. โฃ
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I was ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐ฅ๐จ๐œ๐ค teaching classes, programming sessions, training my fighters, fixing toilets, cleaning equipment, ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง on the mats (gulp), and trying to ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐š ๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐›๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฌ we just could never seem to get ahead of.โฃ
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While ๐ˆ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ (minus the toilets and the bills) it was ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐š๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž for coaching, and well, life.โฃ
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I ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง with the people around me that I cared about the most.โฃ
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I ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ฏ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  in the sport that ๐’๐€๐•๐„๐ƒ my life. โฃ
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I felt a ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐‘๐„๐’๐„๐๐“๐Œ๐„๐๐“ for teaching by the time I got to my last class of the day.โฃ
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I wasn’t ready to ๐‹๐Ž๐Ž๐Š inside, and figure out ๐‡๐Ž๐—ช I got there.โฃ
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I ๐๐‹๐€๐Œ๐„๐ƒ my gym, the very thing that I created in 2010 with LOVE and PASSION.โฃ
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I ๐๐‹๐€๐Œ๐„๐ƒ my landlord for charging me an arm and a leg.โฃ
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I ๐๐‹๐€๐Œ๐„๐ƒ my age for getting injuries and not wanting to train.โฃ
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I was ๐’๐ˆ๐“๐“๐ˆ๐๐† in my own ๐’๐‡๐ˆ๐“.โฃ
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Until I came to the realization that blaming others and circumstances was what was keeping me ๐’๐“๐”๐‚๐Š.โฃ
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I chose to be a gym owner with 8 different programs in a 5000 square front gym, instead of the 1200 sq foot gym that was ๐Œ๐ฎ๐š๐ฒ ๐“๐ก๐š๐ข ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐š๐ฒ, ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐๐š๐ฒ.โฃ
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I chose taking care of others before myself, hence my ๐ˆ๐๐‰๐”๐‘๐ˆ๐„๐’ that I “had no time” to rehab.โฃ
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I chose to not ๐ˆ๐๐•๐„๐’๐“ in a coach to help me with my business because I thought I could just figure it out.โฃ
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But understand that we always have the ๐…๐‘๐„๐„๐ƒ๐Ž๐Œ of CHOICE in terms of how we want to think, feel and act.โฃ
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I’m ๐๐Ž๐“ saying it’s easy.โฃ
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But it ๐ˆ๐’ a simple choice.โฃ
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You ๐€๐‹๐‘๐„๐€๐ƒ๐˜ ๐Š๐๐Ž๐—ช what you really want.โฃ
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To start making the choice, ๐€๐‚๐Š๐๐Ž๐—ช๐‹๐„๐ƒ๐†๐„ the situation that you have “found yourself in”.โฃ
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Your health & well-being is ๐‚๐Ž๐Œ๐๐‘๐Ž๐Œ๐ˆ๐’๐„๐ƒ because of the choices YOU have made.โฃ
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๐˜ˆ๐˜ค๐˜ค๐˜ฆ๐˜ฑ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ถ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ.โฃ
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It’s ๐๐Ž๐“ too late.โฃ
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Don’t ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ about where you are in your life…โฃ
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๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐จ๐ฐ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ:โฃ
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๐˜๐Ž๐” stopped going to the gym because you let that little voice in the back of your head tell YOU that “๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ’๐˜ต ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ช๐˜ต, ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ’๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ”โฃ
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๐˜๐Ž๐” started drinking again after those 7 months cold turkey because YOU got triggered by your ex.โฃ
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๐˜๐Ž๐” decided to hit the drive thru 5x in one week when you had a fridge full of prepped meals.โฃ
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๐ˆ๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐.โฃ
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But ๐ƒ๐Ž๐’๐“ ๐’๐ˆ๐“ in your own ๐’๐‡๐ˆ๐“!โฃ
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Don’t blame the ๐˜จ๐˜บ๐˜ฎ, ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฆ๐˜น, ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜Š๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ฌ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ญ-๐˜ข.โฃ
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Accountability = Personal ๐…๐‘๐„๐„๐ƒ๐Ž๐Œโฃ
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Blame and Excuses= ๐๐‘๐ˆ๐’๐Ž๐โฃ
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๐“๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐ก๐จ๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ…โฃ
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Either ๐Œ๐Ž๐•๐„ forwardโฃ
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Let life ๐‹๐„๐€๐•๐„ you behind.โฃ
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๐“๐ข๐ฆ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐†.๐‘.๐ˆ.๐“.